8 things guys wish you knew
Monday, January 26 /Monday, January 26, 2009
stop thinking you're fatBear in mind that self-confidence and poise are so much sexier. Be bold, focus and flaunt what you have, show the boys that you’re more than meets the eye! Boys don’t like listening to your body insecurities. Start appreciating yourself as you are. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. Learn to love yourself, NOW. Have a healthy body image.
try not to be fickleAfter making a decision, stick to it. Be confident and trust in the choice you make. If the decision is about which dress to wear to a party, don’t waste too much time changing your mind!
avoid gossipingGossiping—it just makes you look shallow and rude. When you do it too often, it might turn into a habit. Passing notes around, whispering, giggling... guys find them annoying. Guilty as charged? Just stop gossiping!
PMS is no excuse !Cramps, a bloated stomach and fluctuating hormones leave you feeling all frustrated and moody. But barking at your sweetie just because you feel sick? Turn the table around. How would you feel if he did the same to you just because he wasn’t in the mood? Take care of his feelings, too. We feel your pain, we really do, but the fact is–don’t let it out on your boy.
mean what you sayDon’t we all say “Nothing” when it’s obvious that there IS something? A yes means yes, and a no means no. Try to open up to him about your feelings. Be honest. Communicate. Talk. Discuss. Stop trying to decode his words or actions. Just ask!
shop lessYou can shop, certainly. But make sure you don’t overspend. Don’t shop like you’re Paris Hilton to keep up to a certain image. Try buying things you really need and really like. You can get fabulous clothes without having to spend a fortune, too!
we aren't mind readersOf course, boys wish they have the power to read your mind. Reality check: they don’t. Try to keep things straight forward and simple. Boys don’t know what you like, where you want to go or what you want to do. Don’t make assumptions cuz guys, most times, don’t get the hint!
dont flirtSmiling and being nice to strike a random conversation with a guy is alright, but heavy flirting with a guy just to get his attention is a big NO-NO. If you like him, let him know. If you're not into him, don't lead him on.